Monthly Archives: February 2012

Big chocies

To much to young that’s what we all say but why are we as society not doing any thing about it. All I see around me is teens as young as 13 boasting about having sex. But is it something to boast about really about having given away part of your innocents and youth so freely. What are we doing so differently that it is over looked that are children are no longer children past the age of about ten. Children should be children society puts undue pressure on children to become adults make there life choices at 14 chose subjects you want to study in uk so you can plan your life. Well when I was 14 I chose subjects that were easy not that I would need. As I like many were not ready to grow up then. IM great full that my children don’t leave school till 18 but in away it be better if they had some thing like in America so children didn’t have to make a life choice as we say there not adults but were telling them to make a life choice how can you make a life choice without being a grown up. We tell them at 16 they can have sex but cants babysit over night ,but if they can have sex they can make a baby and if they have a baby then they don’t just babysit over night. I have seen parents laugh of the fact of there teens having sex I feel that we have become to relaxed when it comes to sex these days . Yes accepting that there is unmarried mums same sex couples and bisexuals ,transvestites . But when it comes to teens should we not allow them to be children still stop giving them huge responsibilities from young age then they may stay children longer and not rush big choices.

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Romantic milestones

Aware romantic comedys making  expectations  of relationships Diffrent to what they should. Are they making us believe that if are relationships not follow the patten of most story lines then there not right. Many women I know  have refused to date a man because he’s not come in to there life’s when they just had a hard time. Or they fallen at second seen the relationship intensity and rollacoster of emotions and challenges if it’s safe it’s not right. If there not a “break up” then emotional make up then nothing o lead to happy ever arfter. Have we got so bad at letting things happen not having to be set rules to full is impossible. Are we that used to following mile stones that even are

relationships have to have set milestones now.so many things in are life’s have set rules and milestones why do we put these rules and expectations on are self I don’t know don’t understand. Did they come from films or did we learn this from are parents. Or is it socitiys expectations that have made use set up a plan set of ruled milestones or what ever u wish to call them.